4 Things to Consider for Bondage Singles

Finding bondage singles through fetish personals that can fulfill your fantasy can be difficult; especially if you have a special kind of fetish. However, keep in mind that there will surely be someone that can fulfill your fetish fantasies if you are patient enough to look for them. Experiencing bondage can be fund and enjoyable in more ways than one. You should remember though that even if you like taking it to the extreme, you should also consider your partner’s and your own safety. That is, of course, if you want to have another session with them which I think you do.

For first timers in the bondage dating scene, things can and will get a little awkward. However, having an idea of what you should do and shouldn’t do while experiencing bondage can relieve you of your anxiety. Here are 4 things that you should consider when having the time of your life with bondage singles:

Start slow and tender

Bondage play doesn’t necessarily have to start fast and hard. If you want to have a more romantic and sensual feel to your bondage experience, you should try starting things slowly. If you want your bondage experience to be aggressive and hardcore, you can still do this by eventually turning up the pace. Do not traumatize your partner by being aggressive right away. Start slow and tender and then move to the fast and aggressive part. It wouldn’t just feel better but it will also feel much more romantic and sensual.

Have a safety word

A safety word is a word that you’ll say if you think that you can’t take it anymore. This is applicable in both light and hard BDSM. In order for you to set a line between safe and not-so-safe, you should always agree on a safety word. Remember to make your safety word as simple as you can. Making a ridiculously long safety word will only spell doom for you. Remember the movie Euro Trip where their safety word was ridiculously long and incomprehensible? Remember what happened to that guy? Yep, that’s pretty much what I’m talking about.

Have some candles around

If you want a sensual environment then lighting up some candles is definitely a great idea. I think that lighting up some candles will make your experience much more enjoyable. This is because candles set both a sensual and romantic mood; perfect for bondage play. Remember to keep them at a safe distance though if you don’t want to end up getting burned.

Use caution when tying up your partner

Bondage obviously will involve a lot of tying up your partner and vice versa. I am not saying that there is something wrong with this. However, when tying up your partner, make sure that you don’t tie them up too tightly. This is because as a result of this, they might get severely hurt. When tying them up, do so moderately – not too tight, not too loose. In relation to this, you might want to avoid tying your partner too loose as they may get turned off by this too. After all, this is the purpose of bondage right?