Femdom Dating: Is It Your Thing?

by BDSM Dating Guide on November 23, 2012

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The femdom dating or fetish singles was not much of a buzz, well, not until now of course. If we go back to the history of our civilization, the male species have always been looked upon as the ones who possess greater power over everyone else. They were mostly the rulers, leaders, founders, presidents, dictators and whatever name you wish to call that person whose voice was heard at every corner and whose words were believed and followed. In short, they were very dominant. They were the ones who were thought of carrying the name of the family, the heir to the throne, the breadwinner, the only hope. They were the ones who were given the privilege to go to school and learn, to train and be skilled as well as to work and earn. They were prioritized at almost every way possible. They were definitely the lucky ones. But change is said to be the only permanent thing in this world. So that was then. This time it is different.

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If ever that ancient belief was still brought up nowadays, a swarm of negative reactions will most likely to emerge. And those will definitely come from the lipstick coated mouths of the women in the society. As the world evolved, the idea about men being above women has changed. Because if you continue believing that, you will be mocked as a sexist or those people who discriminate other people because of their gender and how being a male or a female affects the contributions they give to the world.

From the more complex government positions, family trees and favoritisms, men over women have also changed when it comes to relationships. That is where femdom dating gets into the picture. Femdom dating or a female led relationship is already becoming rampant nowadays. It is where the man submits himself to the hands of the female. In other words, she is the boss. She is in control of her partner and the relationship as a whole. It has been a frequently asked question whether or not it is the proper thing for couples who live with a male chastity lifestyle for the female to take over.

In order to maintain understanding and somehow equality, both the partners should agree to whatever terms and conditions they have decided on. They must settle on something concrete in order to have a solid foundation for the betterment of them being together. The basic of femdom dating or female led relationship is where the day to day life of the man is managed by the female partner. Oftentimes but not all the time, this includes the control of his sex life, money, time and even how he carries himself. This can happen 24 hours a day and seven days a week male slavery existence in a relationship.

Although a lot of men find satisfaction in this kind of set up to the point of fantasizing about it, only few of them really get this in real life. It is still for the couple to decide on which direction will their relationship go. They key is to sit down, discuss and agree on what are the best things for both of them.

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Online Bondage Dating 101 – Tips to Remember

by BDSM Dating Guide on November 8, 2012

in Bondage

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Bondage dating can be an exciting and fulfilling to bdsm singles. However, there will be times that your safety can be compromised. While a little pain can feel good for us, we should also consider our safety. After all, we wouldn’t get to have another sexually fulfilling experience if we end up severely hurting ourselves (or worse!) in a session right?

Even in online bondage dating, there are still precautions that we should all take into consideration. This is to make sure that we don’t end up putting our lives in danger while fulfilling our sexual fantasies. There is really nothing wrong with pursuing these fantasies as long as we know how to keep ourselves safe in the process. For a little heads up, here are some tips and pointers about bondage.

When meeting for the first time, don’t do any bondage sessions

Your excitement can make you do things that you will later on regret. When meeting someone for the first time, do not do any bondage activity just yet. Instead, take your time in getting to know them and figure out if you do feel comfortable with them. This should be your priority when you meet someone for the first time.

Avoid rushing into a bondage session

Even if you might be a little excited about your bondage session, you should control yourself and wait for the right time. Do not just go rushing into a session without getting to know your partner first. Bondage personals usually have an email or IM feature so make sure that you use these features to your advantage. Try talking on the phone with your partner before you decide to meet for a bondage session. Your partner’s voice can tell a lot about their personality.

Do not get into hardcore bondage right away

When doing a bondage session with someone for the first time, make sure that you only do light bondage until you are both comfortable. When you think that you are both comfortable, this is the time when you can take it to the next level. Additionally, it would also be unwise to get yourself in a bondage position that is impossible to get out; especially if it is your first time.

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Sign up and participate only in legit online bondage sites

There is no better way of ensuring your safety than making sure that you are signed up in a legit online bondage site. As the internet is so full of scams nowadays, there is a possibility of signing up in a fake bondage site. As a result of this, you will either end up getting ripped off or you will end up making a total fool out of yourself. Exercise caution when choosing which bondage site you should register on. It may be quite awkward but try asking some people that you know that are also into bondage.

Although some of these might be too obvious, some of us might end up overlooking them because of the excitement that they will feel when a certain someone contacts them for a bondage session. So don’t go diving head first and use your common sense before doing something that you might regret in the future.

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Fetish Dating Online – Learning to Approach Fetish Singles Online

by BDSM Dating Guide on October 18, 2012

in Fetish

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It does not necessarily mean that being on a fetish dating site would give you the right that you need to approach any fetish singles and ask them about sex. If you are someone who has this in mind then it is sad to say that you are surely making a fatal mistake. These people, even if they are into such extreme online dating experiences, still have a lot of respect in themselves and they do demand it from anyone who interacts with them as well. It is important that you know that most of the people who are on this type of online dating community are even pickier when it comes to the individuals that they are interacting with. That is why, if you want to be more successful in approaching and dating singles that you meet on these sites, then it is important for you to learn a few things about how you can do so properly and effectively.

One of the very first things that you should always keep in mind when it comes to this matter is the very introductory topic that you are going to use during your approach. As much as possible try to avoid using pickup lines that you may have heard or read about on the internet. This is because most of the singles here, especially those who are considered as hot ones, may have already heard those lines a thousand times and pretty much sick of it already. Instead of using those cheesy lines, it would be better for you to go for more meaningful conversations and that would require you to focus on the interests that the individual you are planning to date has.

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By turning to the very interests and preferences of that individual, you would be able to make your conversations seem more personal and friendlier. That would in turn allow both of you to create a much lighter atmosphere between each other which would help both parties to open up their respective worlds to each other much easier. This is really an important thing to do especially because you are planning to share a lot of extremely intimate experiences with that individual and you would want to make sure that you are able to learn as much as you can about them. As far as getting more meaningful conversations go, there is one thing that you can do to make things a lot easier for you to do.

The profile page of an online dater is one of the most viewed pages of a lot of individuals. Surprisingly, it is also one of the least used by a lot of them. Unfortunately, most people tend to just look at the profile picture of an individual and they send a message to that person right away. Although this may work sometimes, but if you are going for a more meaningful and solid first impression approach, this would not be enough at all. One thing that you should never forget to look at on these profile pages are the interests and fetish dating preferences of the individual who owns it. This is one of the best ways that you can achieve more meaningful and interesting topics that you can use on your date.

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Setting Up the Perfect Environment for Your Bondage Date

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